A thought crossed my mind about what people have said to me about the drive behind our project - our centre manager Malelega. "She never says No"...she will never turn something down or someone away and will always offer help if people ask. I laugh because I know exactly what they are referring too. People ask for help and usually you would offer your hand but not this woman, she offers her arm and some. Although this is true about Malelega, which can be a strain on the people around her, and I say this because we see how much she gives of herself, and because shes known to say Yes most of the time, we see through our human eyes that she is being taken advantage of. However to be fair, most of us are probably too tired, too busy or too scared to say Yes to some of the things she gives herself to. However if we were to view things through our caring eyes, what is evident about Malelega is "she is a blessed woman". And she knows it. So because of that, she often says if someone comes to me for help and I know I can help them, I will. Ive often asked her "but what if you cant help?" She laughs and says "theres always a way...you can help them".
What we have seen is God's favour and blessing on Malelega in more ways than one (another novel). He knows how much she genuinely cares for people and so he takes care of her. He obviously knows shes a great distributor! What Ive learnt from her, is her DARING POSITIVE ATTITUDE - shes a risk taker! She takes risks and sometimes those risks fall on the way, but most times something comes out of it...a way through. She often says you wont know unless you say Yes and do it! Who else is going to do it for you..you need to do it first...onosa'i she would say, God always finds a way. So there are 2 lessons Ive learnt from her throughout this project (and life itself): Never say No and be a risk taker!







